Running Taught Me There’d Be No ‘Back to Normal’ for My Body Post-Pregnancy—and That’s Okay

I think of my bras in the same way I think of my friends. In some cases, the ones you want with you on a big night out aren’t the ones you want on a cozy night in—but in both cases, when you find a fit that feels right all the time, it’s a major win. While I’m lucky to have plenty of any-time, anywhere friends, there’s only one bra in my arsenal that fits the bill: the new Eby 3D Precision Bra ($75).

Eby 3D Precision Bra — $75.00

Sizes: XS-XL, SDD-XLDD | Colors: 3 | Materials: 85% nylon, 15% spandex

Pros:

• Offers lift and support without metal underwire
• Looks like a bra, feels like a bralette
• Inclusive size range designed to fit 32A-42DD
• Winged bands equally distribute breast weight to avoid discomfort and skin rolls

Cons:

• Finding your size can be a little wonky

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Typically, a good bra requires you to choose between having your boobs look good (which is what I for one want on a big night out) and feel good (which is what I want every other minute of every other day). This bra miraculously does both. It performs as if it has metal wire cups without any actual traditional wire to speak of. In lieu of metal, the Eby 3D Precision delivers its lift with nylon-coated silicone—which means no sticking or poking, ever. It gives my boobs a solid boost (as in: it creates cleavage where there’s typically none to speak of), but is just as comfortable as any other wireless bra in my collection. The cups are slightly padded, but not overly so—they basically make my girls look like a very slightly enhanced version of their natural selves, which is more than I can say about my usual bralettes.

Then, there’s the band. It’s made with what the brand calls “3D wing suspension,” which is designed to help equally distribute the weight of your breasts to avoid pain. It also helps prevent any bunching or skin-rolling and sits seamlessly on your torso, making it an A+ pick to wear under T-shirts and tight turtlenecks.

Needless to say, this bra has become my go-to for pretty much every situation. This weekend alone, I wore the bra to a Knicks game, a Brooklyn birthday party, and underneath my signature Sunday sweatsuit. Not only did my boobs feel good in each scenario, but I felt like they looked good, too—and I’m not the only one who’s been blown away by its look-good, feel-good abilities. “This bra gives the most amazing lift, but it feels so comfortable…it gives the support of an underwire bra but feels like a bralette. The fabric is so soft to the touch, I feel hugged in all the right places, and there’s no bulging,” writes one reviewer, while multiple others say it’s gotten them to wear a supportive bra (instead of a bralette) for the first time in a decade.

Like a good friend, a good bra offers comfort and support—and ideally makes you feel like the best version of yourself, too. The Eby 3D Precision Bra does the job on all three fronts. Get yours here.